Do you need help? The coldness chain maintenance

necesitas ayuda 12-6-2008 6-39-40 PM

If I am sure of something is that my home arrivals are anything but never quietly, in one hand my car’s noise fan belt and in the other hand, my dogs.

To defend, what we understand under defending, I am not sure if they do that but, to bark, they bark a lot.
Before my car turn the last bend they are  barking like crazy. Obviously the fan belt has the merit most part.

I have three children. By chance, this morning they were at home. One of them will have examination soon and he is very busy, the other was concentrated to solve a computer disaster, and the girl has a sore throat and when people has sore throat the best cure is going to mum’s home, sitting on the sofa, wrapping up with a blanket and watching TV movies.

When I opened the boot I’ve posed some question myself.

Are they deaf?

Don’t they Know that it will be Christmas soon and consequently I will have to cook for 45 people?

How beautiful is Christmas  time!

Are they conscious that I went out home at 8am and that means I’ve spent four hours in the supermarket pushing a cart? (sorry they were two carts because one is never enough).

Too many questions.

I could call them but the answer always will be the same.

… now?…

The question is the timing factor.

You can call me romantic or stupid, in the end is just the same but. I  have always thought that the help, the good help, is what people give when  needed, not before, not later.

In fact, the problem is easy, my “now” concept and theirs is not the same.

Their “now” depends on a lot of circumstances. If she is painting her nails or if he must call a friend or if Windows falls.

I don’t wish to be unfair centering only my complainings in my children. As my husband says

You have only one problem you don’t know how to delegate

Usually this afirmation is followed by

don’t you have three children to help you?

OK, if a son is a character unshaved, most of the day wrapped in a bathrobe with the nose pasted to the computer’s screen and his greatest worry is irrigating a virtual aubergine in a Californian University garden. Then, yes this is a soon.

A son may also be a very handsome boy who spends more money on beauty creams than myself? Then, yes this is also a soon.

She is excluded because she has a sore throat.

At least always is the same story, I am the only guilty. I don’t know how to delegate.

I’m sorry but, I must leave you because the frozen food is still standing on the table.

See you.

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